Agree the number before the place
Once someone has said "Lisbon", the person who can afford Leeds has to argue against a plan. Set the number first and nobody has to.
- One person asks everyone, by direct message, for the most they are comfortable spending in total.
- That person keeps the answers to themselves.
- The budget a head is set at or near the lowest answer.
- Only then does anyone suggest where.
"In total" matters. A budget a head should cover the whole trip, from front door to front door.
What the headline price leaves out
The price in the advert is rarely the price of the trip. Before you compare options, add these.
- Getting there. Fares or fuel, parking at the other end, and the taxi from the station when the last bus has gone.
- Fees on the booking. Booking fees, and for a house, any cleaning charge or refundable damage deposit.
- Food and drink. The big one. A cheap house with three restaurant meals costs more than a dearer one where you cook.
- The thing you came for. Tickets, green fees, entry.
- A float. Something for the round, the ice creams and the forgotten phone charger.
Vennado's guide prices say what they cover for this reason. These three are for a night or two away.
£120–220 a head, guide price
One night in a UK city
Train up on the Saturday, home Sunday afternoon.
£80–160 a head, guide price
A big cottage for the weekend
Everyone under one roof and round one kitchen table.
£40–110 a head, guide price
Camping or glamping
A field, a fire pit and a pub within walking distance.
They are guide prices a head for a typical UK city, to show what a budget covers. They are not quotes. The price you pay is the one on the seller's site on the day you book. There is more under city breaks and weekends away.
Splitting costs without a row
Decide the rules before the first payment and put them in the group chat.
| Cost | Usual split | Decide in advance |
|---|---|---|
| A house or lodge | Equally by head | Whether a couple in the double pays the same as someone on the sofa bed |
| Hotel rooms | Each room pays for itself | Who shares, and who pays a single supplement |
| Fuel and parking | By head, across everyone in the car | Whether the driver pays a share |
| Train or plane tickets | Each person pays their own | Whether you must all travel together to get a group fare |
| Food shop and kitty | Equally by head | Whether non-drinkers pay into the drinks |
| Someone joining for one night | Pro rata on beds, by meal on food | That this is allowed at all |
Keep one running list of who has paid what, and settle up within a week of getting home, while people still remember.
Deposits and who holds the booking
Somebody has to press "pay". That person makes the contract with the seller in their own name, so the seller's emails, and any bill for damage, come to them.
- Collect before you pay. Each person sends their share, or at least a deposit, to the booker before the booker pays the seller. A deposit is also how you find out who is really coming.
- Pay by card, not bank transfer, where you can. The Financial Ombudsman Service explains that Section 75 of the Consumer Credit Act lets you take a claim to your credit card provider if the supplier breaks the contract or misrepresents what it sold. It applies when the cash price is more than £100 and not more than £30,000, even if only part of it went on the credit card. With a debit card, your bank may be able to raise a chargeback, usually within about 120 days, though it does not have to. Neither applies to a bank transfer.
- Know the limit of that protection. Section 75 depends on a clear agreement between the cardholder, the supplier and the lender, and the ombudsman says that is not always straightforward. With one person paying for eight, treat it as a backstop.
Cancellation terms
Read them before you pay, and tell the group:
- the date after which the deposit is lost
- the date the balance is due
- whether names or numbers can change, and what it costs
Then agree your own rule for dropouts. The common one is fair and simple: once it is booked, you owe your share unless you find someone to take your place. In a house priced as a whole, one person leaving puts everyone else's price up, so say this out loud before booking.
The booking order
- Fix the date. Everything else is priced by date. A plan with "the 14th or the 21st" still in it cannot be booked.
- Book the thing that sells out. Match or gig tickets, the tee time, the only house that sleeps twelve.
- Book travel. The times you can travel decide when you arrive, when you must leave and whether you need the extra night.
- Book beds. Last, because the date, the main event and your arrival time are now fixed, so you know exactly which nights you need. If the bed is the thing that sells out, it moves to step two.
When a trip counts as a package
If one company sells you transport and accommodation together for the same trip, or another combination of different kinds of travel service, that is generally a package. Government guidance on the Package Travel Regulations, which is written for businesses, says the organiser is then liable for the services in the package being delivered and must protect your money against its own insolvency. For packages that include a flight, that protection comes through ATOL.
A trip you put together yourself from separate sellers is usually not a package. You are relying on each seller's own terms and on how you paid. That is not a reason to avoid doing it. It is a reason to read each set of cancellation terms.
Where Vennado fits
Vennado does the first part. It finds the dates the whole group is free, including runs of days long enough for a night away, and it suggests trips that fit those days and the budget a head you set. The group shortlists, votes and locks one in.
It does not take payments, split costs, hold deposits or make bookings. Links go out to the seller, and the contract is between the booker and the seller. Today those links earn Vennado nothing. When a link is paid it will be labelled "Paid link", and Vennado never adds a fee. How we make money explains that in full.
If the group cannot find a date at all, start with finding a date everyone is free.
Questions people ask
How do you agree a budget for a group trip without it getting awkward?
Ask privately. One person collects a maximum from everyone by direct message, promises not to share individual numbers, and sets the budget a head at or near the lowest. Do it before anyone has suggested a destination, so nobody has to argue a plan down. People who want to spend more can do so on the day.
What is the fairest way to split the cost of a group trip?
Split shared things by head and personal things by person. A cottage, fuel and the food shop are shared. Train tickets, a single room and what you drink are personal. Agree the rule for couples sharing a room and for anyone coming for part of the time before booking, and write it in the group chat.
Who should make the booking for a group?
One person, in their own name, with the money collected first. That person holds the contract with the seller, receives the emails and is the one the seller will pursue or refund. Everyone else pays their share to the booker before the booker pays. Choose someone who is organised and can afford a short delay in being repaid.
Is a group booking protected if I pay by credit card?
It can be. Section 75 can cover a purchase of more than £100 and up to £30,000 made at least partly on a credit card. With one person paying for eight, the Financial Ombudsman Service warns that the agreement it relies on is not always clear cut. A bank transfer has no such cover.
In what order should we book a group trip?
Fix the date first. Then book whatever will sell out or go up in price, whether that is tickets or a large house. Then travel, because the times you can travel decide when you arrive and leave. Then beds, unless the bed was the thing that sells out. Read the cancellation terms at each step.